Introduction
Mindfulness meditation for veterans: actually helpful or a woo-woo idea being peddled to you as a cure all for the stress of life? When youโve spent any part of your professional career in the military, โcalmโ isnโt exactly a word youโd use to describe your time in service for most people. In fact, itโs pretty common to feel like you got institutionalized going all the way back to your first day at boot camp. So how can you bring mindfulness into your life? Is it even worth it? When should you meditate and what should that practice look like?
Donโt worry, weโve got you. The good news is you donโt need to meditate for an hour a day or feel like a failure if you canโt fully clear your mind of any thoughts. You can still get all the benefits of meditation with smaller action steps. And no, you donโt have to burn incense or candles while youโre doing it, either.
What is Mindfulness Meditation?
Letโs start off by talking about mindfulness period. What does that mean, anyways? Itโs a buzzword that gets thrown around frequently without much explanation into the practicality of it.
According to mindful.org, mindfulness happens when โthe mind is fully attending to whatโs happening, to what youโre doing, to the space youโre moving through.โ
Hang with me on the โspace youโre moving through” part, since that sounds a little out there.
Thereโs no doubt that weโre all distracted and have trouble focusing these days. I mean, a pandemic with ever-changing school schedules, work expectations, and restrictions on where you could go only made that worse. Throw in the stress of everyday life, the onslaught of advertising and other stimuli the average person sees during the typical day, and no one we feel like we canโt ever just sit still and be.
The root of meditation is similar to the concept of mindfulness, since itโs all about quieting your mind.
Goals of Meditation
The two goals of meditation are:
1. Focus your attention
2. Support a heightened state of awareness
Mindfulness meditation is distinct from concentrative meditation is one important way. Concentrative meditation is all about tuning out everything else around you and focusing on one specific thing, like music or your breathing. Mindfulness meditation, however, is about being aware of and in that present moment, so itโs not about tuning out.
Benefits of Mindfulness Meditation for Veterans
There are also specific types of mindful meditation that might be especially helpful for veterans. Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy and mindfulness-based stress reduction are two examples.
The benefits of mindful meditation for veterans and others are well-documented. They include:
- Lowering stress
- Decreasing anxiety
- Better physical health
- Increasing attention span
- Appreciating more things โin the momentโ in your everyday life
In addition to using meditation as a preventive tool, you can also benefit from it when youโre dealing with a difficult situation in your personal or work life.
Boss driving you crazy? Step away for a few minutes of meditation in your car. Even a walking meditation outside can help you cool down and re-center.
When youโre transitioning out of service and want more peace in your life or if youโre looking for ways to support yourself in coping with PTSD, mindfulness is a great way to do those. Getting support for your personal goals can increase your chances of success.
5 Mindfulness Mediation Tips for Veterans
No matter what anyone tries to tell you, there is no one โrightโ way to start with mindful meditation for veterans. In fact, the most important thing to keep in mind as you start this practice is that itโs got to be what works for you.
Too many people shame themselves for what they feel or donโt feel during a meditation session. They focus a lot on the feeling that theyโre โdoing it wrongโ and this discourages them from continuing with a practice. Think of it like how others got ready for PRT tests and taping for military life. Everyone had their own tried-and-true method from juicing for 7 days prior to only eating protein. If they passed their test, itโs what worked for them. Mindfulness meditation for veterans is custom, too, and the plan you enjoy and can stick with is far better than doing one because you feel like you have to.
Here are a few tips to hit the ground running with mindfulness in a way that works for you.
1. Start Small
Thereโs no sense promising yourself that youโll meditate for an hour every day when you know you donโt have the time or interest for that. Youโll just end up frustrated weeks from now because youโve meditated a whole zero minutes. This is one situation where it calls for baby steps. I find it hard to sit still and many other people do, too.
At first, meditating for three minutes will be hard. Thatโs okay- aim for two. When youโre just beginning, look for things that will help you start this new habit in a meaningful way. A marathon runner doesnโt mark โDay 1: Run 26.2 milesโ on their calendar. They start small and work up (and by the way, itโs okay if you never ramp up from 2-3 minutes of meditation, either.)
The first time you meditate, you might feel like you didnโt accomplish anything. Thatโs typical. Keep at it!
2. Use a Meditation App
If youโre the kind of go-go-go person who is just trying mindful meditation for the first time, itโs going to feel downright impossible to sit down and do it one day. Youโll find all kinds of barriers. Your mind will not quiet down. Instead, it will run something like this:
- Am I even doing this right?
- Am I supposed to sit a certain way?
- Should I think of somethingโฆ. Or not?
- Itโs been three minutes already, right? I should check my phone.
- No, itโs probably only been 30 seconds. Let me refocus here.
- Oh, I really need to add AAA batteries to the grocery listโฆ canโt believe I keep forgetting that.
- What is that sound? Is that normal? Does my house always make that sound and Iโve just never noticed it?
Your brain and body are not practiced yet, so this is normal. Give yourself a little bit of help by using an app like Calm or listening to a podcast.
When I first started meditating all these people told me it wasnโt legitimate if I used guided meditation vs. sitting quietly. That was a load of crap, and I still get benefits out of guided mindfulness videos today.
Having someone elseโs voice guide you helps you stop getting in your own way with a chain of thoughts. Will you still get distracted? Yes. But youโll also feel more comfortable that youโre doing what youโre supposed to be doing during that moment. Plus, listening to music or an app gives you a clear โdoneโ point so youโre not tempted to open your eyes and check your phone.
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3. Meditate in the Same Space
Pick a space where you can sit comfortably for your mindful meditation sessions. You can have an indoor and an outdoor location. This will really help when youโre new to the practice, since it will train your brain and body that once youโve entered this space and seated or laying down position that youโre about to meditate.
4. Meditate at the Same Time Each Day
Want to increase your chances of mindfulness meditation success? Do it at the same time every day, preferably in the morning. If you wait until later, the workday and family responsibilities make it all too easy to forget entirely. Remember, you can use meditation whenever you want and there is no โlimitโ but itโs a lot like exercising- do it first thing and anything else you do that day is a bonus.
5. Mix it Up if You Need to
Consistency is more important than process here, so if you like the regularity of doing it the same time every single day with the same exact process, go for it. But if you mind yourself getting restless and wanting to see if one type resonates more for you than another, be open to testing things out.
For example, you can focus on different things in your awareness each time you meditate like:
- Sit quietly and allow your thoughts to come and go without judgment, noticing only your breath
- Notice sensations in your body like tingling or itching. Go from head to toe.
- Notice tastes, smells, or sounds in your periphery.
- Allow your emotions to ebb and flow throughout the meditation. Accept each of the emotions without any judgment before releasing them.
- Lean into your distractions. This is also called urge surfing, where you notice how youโre feeling and what physical aspects youโre dealing with as emotions enter and exit during the meditation practice.
- Once youโve been at it for some time, keep a journal nearby to write down any thoughts or aha moments that came up so you can open your practice thinking about those next time.
Over time, you can even cycle through these different ideas to make space for a little bit of everything.
Conclusion
The right way to meditate is your way. Start small, get support or an app if you need it, and stay consistent. Youโll start to see benefits just by sticking with it for a little while. As time goes on, you can decide if you want to change aspects of your practice, like meditating for even longer.